July 19, 2020

How to Stay Motivated.

What is Motivation?
                       
           
                    
"Motivation is an ongoing process" (Goudas, Biddle, & Fox, 2011).

"Motivation is defined as a cognitive process" (Osborn, Irwin, Skogsberg, &Feltz, 2012).

"Motivation is a desire for change" (Hong, Cheng, Hwang, Lee, & Chang, 2009).

"Motivation is a desire to do something" (Kim, & Lee, 2008).

"Motivation is an abstract concept" (Sass, 1989).


Here are quite a few definitions of motivation, by famous scholars. This word has different meanings depending upon your standpoint. As different human beings have a varied opinion and surrounding, so the ways for staying motivated could be different for everyone depending upon their circumstances.

Here are three ways that boost my motivation level, hopefully, they can help you as well.

1. Harness the Power of Optimism.


In order to be positive, you need to have a practical approach to life. And for that matter, you should learn to acknowledge negative, so that it will not hinder you in the long run. Optimism can be detrimental if you are in denial about your current reality, but this doesn't mean that you should stop looking after the bright side.
Instead of daydreaming about a lucrative job or fairytale relationship, start addressing your problems that are hindering your goals. Optimism with the combination of a realistic approach helps you navigate through life.
You can also make a gratitude journal for yourself and jot down the things you are grateful for, every morning. So that it will give you good vibes for the rest of the day.
Also, stop worrying about the things you can't take control of, as it will only make you anxious. Because as long as you are okay at this moment, you are sorted.
Try to Workout for at least 10 mins a day, as it helps to clear your mind and also improve your mental health. It improves your thinking, learning and judgement skills. Benefits of working out are endless.

2. Control Overthinking.

Thinking before making any decision is appreciable but continuously thinking about something in endless circles is exhausting.
While everyone thinks over a certain point of time, but "What if and should" dominates the thinking of chronic overthinkers which is mentally draining and can put your health and total well-being at risk.
Rather than getting lost in the thoughts of what you could have, would have and should have done differently, try to become self-aware and connect to your immediate world.
There is no point of building a castle of situations inside your head unless you work for it. And for that, you need to connect and observe things in your surrounding.
Be self-aware of your potential and accept your short-comings, which is very helpful for enhancing confidence level.
Be ambitious but never run after perfection.
Because the idea of being perfect all the time will somehow make you fall into the vicious cycle of overthinking.

3. Develop a healthy routine.

Developing a healthy routine during this tough time is quite challenging but there is way out of everything if you are determined enough.
Try to wake up early in the morning every single day. Waking up early refreshes your mind and gives you some time to spend on yourself before involving into the hustle and bustle of daily activities.
Make a proper to do list for things you want to accomplish everyday. So that it will keep you on track.
And most importantly try to avoid or minimise the intake of junk food and make your diet protein and fibre rich.
"Healthy mind lies in a healthy body."
I admit it though, it isn't always easy to create good habits, but at least u can give it a try.
Map out your activities for the day and break it into chunks in order to be efficient. Having a daily routine not only makes you more efficient, but it also eliminates your need to waste time deciding what to do next.

Always remember one thing that everything starts within your own mind. It is you who has to decide which road you should choose.


July 07, 2020

Find Order Amidst the Chaos


This sudden outbreak of a highly contagious virus has turned the entire system of our human race upside down. Pure reason toppled by sheer melodrama- our life in a nutshell during pandemic.

                   


It was erratic and unexpected, yet the bitter truth is that even the super power nations have kneeled down in front of it because uncertainty is the new trend and 2020 is the best example. The unexpected changes brought by coronavirus outbreak affect people all across the globe and from all walks of life. It’s not about the disease but the consequences that lead to sadness, frustration, depression, economic upheaval and self-isolation. The list just goes on and on.
       
During this time of worldwide unrest, sky rocketing unemployment, it’s hard to not feel helpless, it’s hard to hold onto positivity. But there are always two sides of every coin. This might sound like nonsense; you must be thinking she’s some freaking optimism junkie. But this is not the case, there are certain activities that uplift your mood and motivate you. All you need to do is to introspect, to find yourself.
   
             
         
And this is the best time to invest in you. Rather than bingeing Netflix and scrolling through Instagram day and night, you can leverage this opportunity to expand your knowledge and skills.

Use this time to do things you have always wanted to try but have never had a minute to spare. This could be anything that make you happy, learning new language, trying new recipes, spending quality time with your loved ones, reading a book or journaling. It's okay to spend time on yourself. You needn’t be productive 24×7.Come on we’re all human. You need to learn to embrace yourself and your surroundings. Be grateful for every breath you take because, Hey! Someone out there is in a hospital struggling for it. This is tiniest yet most concrete example to make us realize countless of blessings bestowed upon us.

           

It’s okay to heal and take some time for yourself. Nature is also healing in a beautiful way. Somehow, this virus is teaching us to slow down, to free ourselves from this materialistic world for a while.

It is possible to tackle this grim scenario in a healthy way. We will get through this. It won’t be easy but this too shall pass.

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